Baqarah
226-227 226- FOR THOSE WHO MAKE AN OATH TO ABSTAIN FROM THEIR WIVES, THEY
MAY WAIT FOR UP TO FOUR MONTH, IF THEY RESUME LIFE TOGETHER; ALLAH IS MOST
FORGIVING AND MOST MERCIFUL. 227- AND IF THEY DECIDED TO DIVORCE, ALLAH HEARS AND KNOWS ALL THINGS. These
two Ayahs were sent down to correct an injustice some women used to
suffer. Men were able to swear an oath
not to touch their wives. Following
which they may go on for a long time depriving their wives of their conjugal
rights. The wife remained; neither
divorced then able to remarry, nor married.
These Ayahs put an end to this injustice. Allah
the Highest tells us that those who swear an oath to stay away from their wives
have four month maximum for this abstention.
Or if separated due to any disputes between them, they have four month
to sort their problems out so that they can get back together or end the
marriage by divorce. It does not have to
go on for four month, but the maximum is four month. This
prevents open ended marital disputes, in which the wife is often the losing
party if left without a divorce and without reconciliation. Divorce is not necessarily an end, although
it is an act not liked by Allah the Highest.
It can be a solution and a beginning to a new and better marriage. There
is a difference in opinion between the scholars as to whether the Edda (the
period following divorce during which a woman can not remarry) should be one or
three menstrual cycles as in normal divorce?
In case of the divorced woman being pregnant, her Edda ends at the end
of her pregnancy. In
the next Ayahs; there are detailed commands and Law about matrimonial as well
as divorce issues. It is important to
understand them properly as they really affect us.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
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